When Crisis Calls: Finding Peace in Purposeful Action

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I’m overwhelmed with emotion as I connect with my friends in Los Angeles and see the devastation being caused by the fires.

My heart breaks for all the animals in harm’s way… humans included (we are animals too!). 

If you are one of those people personally affected by the fires, my heart and prayers are with you.

In last week’s newsletter I wrote about the idea of “fierce compassion” (in case you missed it, I turned it into a blog post here), and I’m so glad I did, because given the current situation in L.A. I’m called to continue the conversation this week.

The Balance Between Being and Doing

I’ve talked a lot about being vs. doing over the last few years following going through severe burn-out, which landed me in Peru, working with Ayahuasca for 12 days. (I have yet to write a follow-up to my pre-aya post, because my experience was something very challenging to put into words.)

I returned with the understanding that my whole life, my focus has been on DOING everything I possibly can to help relieve the suffering of animals, what I’ve considered my life’s purpose since the age of seven.

I realized I was ignoring the importance of valuing my inherent worth as a human BEING, and it set me on the path of placing more of a focus on nurturing inner peace by making practices like meditation and yoga more of a priority.

That said, what I’ve come to understand, in my ever-evolving perspective, is that the most powerful way to be impactful, is to absolutely ACT (do), when action is called for, but to act with intention and present-moment awareness, and, to the best of our ability, to act from a place of inner-peace, grounded in pure compassion (for other people, animals, ourselves, and the planet).

And of course this is no small feat!

In order to act in such a way, we must get intentional with developing daily practices to cultivate inner-peace, and to move through the world intentionally, and with awareness.

Practicing Tonglen: Expanding Our Circle of Compassion

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One of the most relevant practices I know of is an ancient form of meditation called Tonglen, that is all about helping us widen our circle of compassion and relieve the suffering of ourselves and others. 

Tonglen is a Tibetan word that translates to “sending and taking” and the practice involves visualizing taking in the pain of others with our in-breath and sending out whatever will benefit them on the out-breath

And this is of course somewhat effortless when we’re practicing on behalf of people and animals we love deeply… those in our current circle of compassion. And it gets more challenging as we start to practice on behalf of beings we feel neutral toward or dislike.

So instead of turning our attention away from suffering, Tonglen teaches us how to lean into it and use it as a way to connect with others and create a sense of peace even in the midst of suffering.

I love how Buddhist monk Pema Chodron teaches about Tonglen, in case you’re interested enough to check out this 10-minute video of hers.

Outward Action: How We Can Help

Of course, if you are able to take outward action that will benefit those in need right now, like donating to rescue and relief organizations, that is very much needed right now. Best Friends Animal Society, for example, is doing incredible work on the front lines.

The Bigger Picture: Crises Beyond the Fires

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Let’s keep in mind that although the fires in LA are getting tons of media attention (rightfully so), there are similar crises occurring all the time, all over the globe—some less visible but equally devastating. 

From the destruction of rainforests for animal agriculture to the suffering of billions of sentient beings in factory farms, the choices we makemaking a difference by choosing vegan meals every day have the power to either perpetuate harm or foster healing.

Everyday Acts of Fierce Compassion

We may not be able to stop a wildfire with our bare hands, but we can make a profound impact by starting with what’s on our plates.

Choosing vegan meals is one of the most powerful actions we can take to reduce deforestation, conserve water, lower greenhouse gas emissions, and spare countless animals from suffering. It’s an act of fierce compassion that ripples out to protect the earth, its inhabitants, and future generations.

So, as we reflect on the crises unfolding around us, let’s channel our sorrow and outrage into meaningful action

Let’s honor our connection to all life by choosing foods that nourish not just our bodies, but also our planet and its beings.

Together, through mindful choices, we can be part of the solution—every single day.

Fierce Compassion: Guide to Grieving, Celebrating, and Living Fully

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Before I talk about FIERCE COMPASSION, I want to wish you a Happy New Year from me and Fiona!

We were gifted a gorgeous New Year’s Day in Miami (don’t hate😜… come visit!) and I had the fortune of taking Fiona to Bark Beach with the guy I’m dating (I can hardly believe I’m dating, as I was NOT looking to do so anytime soon, but that’s a story for another day).

I also took some time to reach out to people I care about this week.

I was touching base with a client turned friend, and she mentioned that she typically finds the holiday season to be “performative and annoying,” as well as challenging when it comes to eating healthfully.

She also mentioned that this year she was feeling a heaviness in her heart… a sense of grieving from the election perhaps… that was weighing on her.

As I was contemplating what words I could offer to be helpful to her, I put some energy into checking in with how I was feeling, and came up with the following message that I thought could be helpful to her and many of you reading this right now…

As we step into 2025, I’m reflecting on the idea of living with fierce compassion.

It’s a guiding force for me—a way of being that holds space for the full spectrum of emotions that are all a part of this human experience. 

I feel deep sorrow for the unbearable suffering of animals and humans alike… 

AND

I feel immense joy for the love, beauty, and wonder that still exist in this world.

It’s not either/or. It’s both.

I can grieve AND celebrate.

I can feel pain AND embody gratitude.

I can acknowledge the darkness AND shine my light.

This is what fierce compassion looks like.

It’s about being awake to the suffering around us while staying grounded in hope, love, and purpose.

Every moment offers us an opportunity to raise our vibration and contribute to the relief of suffering—for ourselves, for others, and for the planet.

Every action we take has the potential to do good or harm, to heal or to hurt.

Hogs and kisses farm sanctuary Ella and RubiaSo, as we move through this new year together, let’s ask ourselves:

How can we cultivate peace within, so we can ripple that peace outward?

How can we dance through life with loving awareness and intention?

Let’s make 2025 a year of fierce compassion, grounded in kindness and connection.

Top 2 Reasons Yogis are Going Vegan in 2017

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It’s easy to leave our yoga practice behind on the mat, but for a truly integrative approach to health and spirituality, more and more yogis are going vegan.

Because of the belief in ahimsa, non-violence, and karma, the idea that all of our thoughts and actions have a reaction in the universe, many people of the Hindu faith have been choosing a vegetarian lifestyle for thousands of years. Today yogis are taking up this ancient practice to benefit their health and enact compassion.

The health benefits of a plant based diet can’t be denied anymore. A diet low in cholesterol, which a vegan diet naturally is, and high in fiber can do wonders for your heart health, especially when combined with yoga. If you have a family history of heart disease, a vegan diet is something you should seriously consider. Yoga teaches us to honor our bodies and be mindful of how our choices affect us. Once you become deeply in tune with your body, you’ll realize how certain foods affect you. Do you feel sluggish after eating meat for lunch? Do you break out after eating cheese? These are some questions you should ask yourself to get in touch with how meat and dairy are affecting your body.

The other main reason so many yogis choose to become vegan is because of their ethics. Yoga instills in us a sense of stewardship of the world around us. In 2017, we need to make a serious commitment to the health of our planet. Of all of the ways that we damage the environment, livestock production is one of, if not the worst way. When 1 in 10 people don’t have access to clean drinking water, it’s a hard fact to swallow that livestock productions uses 1/3rd of Earth’s fresh water, while contributing to much of its pollution. And if you’re worried about deforestation, livestock production is one of the biggest contributing factors.

Yoga encourages us to recognize our connection to all living creatures. Once we take this message into our hearts, it’s hard to accept that you are inflicting pain on another creature for your own momentary satisfaction. And it isn’t just the animals that suffer in torturous conditions. In the US, workers in the meat industry face some of the most unsafe working conditions in the country.

One of the fundamental beliefs of yoga is that our mental, physical, and spiritual health are all connected. Through yoga, we try to care for all of these aspects at once. Don’t undo the progress you made on your mat once you open your refrigerator; take your practice of mindfulness into the kitchen instead. If being a vegan isn’t for you, that’s okay! You can still spend some time thinking about what you’re eating, whether it was sustainably sourced, and what it will do to your body. Regardless of what you decide, the best way to be a good yogi at the dinner table is to feel gratitude for whatever it is you have the privilege of eating.